These three things

By Steven Polley

Director, Office of Youth Ministry

   My timing is a little off for this column, but other topics have seemed to fall into place better.  Of course it would not be right if I did not take at least one opportunity to write a little something on the retirement of Brett Favre from the Green Bay Packers.  Needless to say I was a little disappointed as I had hoped that he would give it one more year.  But too, I knew that this time would come and that with all things the Packers and everyone will move on.  So hopefully I can take this concept of moving on and bring some light to my words for this column.

   Over the last several months there have been a couple of things that have been reoccurring.  The first is the Scripture from Revelation, 21: 5, “See, I make all things new”.  The second is the song, “Be Not Afraid”.  I don’t know what it is, but both of these have been sending powerful messages to me in times that I probably need it the most, but least expect it.  Of course the song is one of those songs that everyone knows and can sing.  For myself as a parent, it was a song that I sang frequently to my kids, hopefully sending a message that God is always present and taking care of them.  I know that “Be Not Afraid” is a song that Heather is now singing often.

   As I ponder these two things, I am drawn to our young people who again are nearing the end of another academic year.  For many it may be the last few weeks before their final exams in this year of college.  For others it is looking to graduation and still to others the knowing that they are ready to move to the next year of school.  But in each case there likely are many thoughts of wonder and yes, fear.  Maybe a fear of the unknown and what lies ahead. 

   I believe that there is a faith that runs very deep in the people of southwest Kansas.  A faith that even with fears and uncertainty, allows us to remain strong and focused on our risen Lord, that speaks to us, “Behold, I make all things new.” I pray that as we near the end of another school year that we are able to continue sharing this message with our young people, helping them find a renewed strength and vision found in Christ.

   You may be asking yourself what any of this has to do with Brett Favre. Right after Brett announced his retirement, I began keeping a close eye on the Packer’s web-site.  Rather quickly this article came up: “Wounded Army officer has last ball thrown by Favre.” For anyone who follows the Packers, we know that the last ball Brett threw was an interception.  Corey Webster from the New York Giants intercepted the ball and of course kept it after the game.  In the process, he gave the ball to Lt. Col. Greg Gadson who had lost both legs in a roadside bomb in Iraq, and someone who had become an inspiration for the Giants as they made their run to the Super Bowl.  Before the Packers game with the Giants, he addressed the Giants and shared these words.  “Concentrate on the mission, never give up and believe in each other.” 

   As I reflect on these years of ministry, one thing that has remained constant is how the young people of our diocese through ministry together have come to believe in one another.  But on the other hand, I think that sometimes they have struggled with a clear understanding of the mission of the Church.  And I think too that they can easily become discouraged, frustrated and give up, often looking for the easier way. 

   I feel that part of our responsibility as baptized Catholics is to help them understand the Church’s mission and to help them remain steadfast and strong and to not give up.  So how can we continue to live our baptism by helping our young people hear God’s voice saying, “Behold… and Be Not Afraid”?

 

Mark it off

By Steven Polley

Director, Office of Youth Ministry

   I was in Wal-Mart last night getting some supplies that I needed.  As always, I had my list with me, and once again my true personality came out.  There I was, picking something up that was not on my list. So, like always, I wrote the item down, just so I could mark it off my list.  As abnormal as this may seem, the nice thing to know is that I am not the only person in the world that does things like this.  It is all part of who we are and our personality traits.

I share this story because we are each looking to the month of May. I remember growing up and we always had our prom in May.  Now we have schools that have prom as early as the end of March.  We hear it time and time again, that it is difficult to schedule anything in May as everyone is so busy.  I am not disagreeing with anyone, as I do realize how busy we are, not only during the month of May, but all of the time.

I remember the years of teaching when it was extremely difficult to do much true teaching during the last few weeks of school.  More than once I could have been found guilty of simply marking things off the list. I will share more on this later.

You might ask where I am going with this. Well, once again the Holy Spirit jumped in when it was most needed, and once again I was not expecting it. 

I am taken back to the reflection from “The Word Among Us” for Tuesday, April 22. If you subscribe to this, I would invite you to go back a re-read this reflection.  The author speaks about Paul’s travels and his ministry during these travels. 

I would like to share with you some of this reflection:  “When we look at Paul, we can see that his life of faith was just that – life!  Far from being a to-do list with tasks to be checked off, our walk of faith is much more the process of living our lives for Jesus – not just in active ministry but also in everyday, even mundane interaction with others!  Who knows how God might be working in our hearts through our friendships as we encourage each other through our daily trials, celebrate each other’s joys, and share our victories or struggles?”

When I was teaching, how easy it was for me toward the end of the year to cover a section in the book each day, give an assignment and walk away with the mind-set that I had taught the lesson.  All I was accomplishing was the task of completing what I thought needed to be covered during the course of a year.  I was not teaching, nor were the students learning.  Simply, I was marking things off the list. 

So, as we enter this month of May and as our seniors prepare to graduate, I ask you to ponder this question:  How can we help our young people walk this journey of faith not as a to-do list, but a process of walking this journey with Jesus, our silent friend at our side?

I conclude by sharing the closing prayer from this same reflection of April 22.  May it be a prayer of guidance for you during this month of May:       

“Heavenly Father, slow me down!  Help me to stay close to you no matter what I’m doing.  Lord, I give you the freedom to move in my heart in your own way!”