‘Time’ and other myths

 

By David Myers

Southwest Kansas Register

A few weeks ago I found myself asking God, “Why did you create time? Why do we have to age, our minds buckling to the pressures of life and hardening to the joy that as children, we discovered around each and every corner?” If anyone could give me an answer to an impossible question, it was God – him being God and all. ...

There’s a small patch of sidewalk in Dodge City that leads directly to the Rocky Mountains. For seven years now, each time I walk that short, pine-tree lined block, the wonderful scent of pine needles has transported me deep into the Rockies, back to any one of dozens of camping trips I went on while growing up. I can still see me and my buddy Dave backpacking along a tree-lined trail, each donning our “clutter” boots, poorly-packed 60 lb. back packs, and enough “Off” to leave a legion of mosquitoes dazed and confused.

We walked and we talked – that 16-year-old talk -- of girls and whether this might be the year that one of us actually finds a girlfriend (turns out, it wouldn’t be); of “hobbits” and “orks” and Middle Earth, and the unspoken hope that we’d step around a curve and see an elf darting through the evergreens (one of the reasons we didn’t have girlfriends). There was talk of school and teachers, including that sadistic gym teacher who we’d have called a shaved ape were it not for the fact that he was hairier than a gorilla.

Another day, another walk along the street of pines, and I envision my dad, my brother and me driving up a steep, windy mountain road in our old Plymouth Fury III, parking at the base of the Continental Divide aside Jenny Lake, across from which a year-round glacier crept up the side of the mountain. It was our first camping trip and we learned quickly that slumber bags aren’t conducive to slumber when camping near glaciers. I envision the morning, waking from a restless night, the sun beating down on me and my brother through the walls of our canvas tent, the sound of a crackling fire tended to by my dad, who each morning cooked up a steaming pot of hot chocolate. I remember hooking wriggly worms and their look of impossible pain. I remember staring out at my fishing bobber for one hour – two hours – three hours, and then having Spam for supper.

     

There’s a place in Dodge City that leads directly to Westminster, Colo.

The other day at Dodge City’s mall, I found myself staring downstairs into the video game arcade. Suddenly I was back in Colorado at the Westminster Mall – Dave and I on a late-1970s evening, shoving a dollar into a token machine. There was Defender and Dig-Dug and Frogger (the latter of which I re-experienced a month ago when driving down a street as dozens of frogs tried to cross). And there was always that one popular machine on which some tough kid set a stack of quarters for the night as if marking his territory. Off limits, we’d realize as we stared over his shoulder at the cool graphics, longing to get our hands on the controls. Later, our quarters spent, it was off to Taco Bell, adulthood a mystery as far away as the moon. 

On those warm nights, I’d often walk to the park at the end of my street. I’d lay down on the grass and look up at the night sky, and imagine ....

There was nothing that could destroy a warm night under the stars. A bad grade couldn’t steal its beauty. The school bully could bully me until my nose bled, but even he couldn’t touch the stars. I could even get into trouble for eating a Fudgesicle before dinner – okay, three Fudgesicles -- and the stars would still be there.

Under the night sky, I could dream of being Captain Kirk -- as I often did. (Only I’d have hung on to that blue alien lady; she was a fox.) I remember looking up to the stars and yearning to be taken for a ride by aliens. “C’mon!” I’d whisper. “I actually WANT to go for a ride! Only without all the weird implants and probes and things. Okay?”

Where did all those times go? Are the joyous events of our past, events that sometimes revolve around people long since departed – are they really gone, like pages of a book in a shredder? Or is time more like a computer hard drive, where, no matter what you do, those events are still in there somewhere -- able to be re-lived, if only you know how to find them?

Perhaps all those wonderful moments aren’t really gone. Perhaps all those events are simply stored, not just as memories but actual events waiting for each one of us – real and tangible moments awaiting us in our eternal life in heaven. Remember Rule #1 when it comes to heaven: Thou shalt not limit your perceptions.

Why couldn’t heaven be a game of Frogger with my buddy, or an afternoon around Jenny Lake with my family?

It’s just a thought I had a few weeks ago as I stood in my backyard on a warm summer night, staring up into the star-filled sky, imagining... .