By Joe Bollig
Catholic News Service
He was believed to be the oldest active
Catholic priest in the
He spent 63 years at Holy Family. He served
under seven bishops, and seven popes led the church
during his priesthood.
“You never worried with (Msgr.) Mejak around,” said Father Ron Livojevich,
who grew up in Holy Family Parish and is pastor of the Church of the Nativity
in Leawood. “We always thought that he’d live
forever.”
Bernice Anzek, a
longtime Holy Family parishioner and parish volunteer, said the monsignor had
several explanations for his long-term assignment.
“I think they forgot about me, so I just
stayed on,” he once said. He would explain that “the bishop didn’t ask me to
move, and I never asked the bishop to move.”
But he also would simply say: “I like it
here and I want to stay here.”
The word “retire” was not in his
concordance. His last Mass was celebrated on the morning of the day he died.
Msgr. Mejak was
born March 17, 1909, a citizen of the Austro-Hungarian Empire, which was ruled
by the Habsburg dynasty. His hometown was the seaport of Fiume, now
“I can understand Slovenian, but I can’t
speak a word of it,” he said in a Feb. 7, 2003, interview with The Leaven,
newspaper of the Kansas City Archdiocese. “My mother was Bohemian (Czech); my
father, Slovenian. But the official language in (
His father, John, immigrated to the
Heliodore
Mejak was only 9 years old when his father died. His
mother supported Heliodore and his four sisters as a
seamstress.
Frieda Bader, Msgr. Mejak’s
younger sister, remembers a local priest asking Heliodore
at one point why he attended a public high school and not a Catholic high
school. When Heliodore replied that he couldn’t
afford it, the priest got him in for free. He was also instrumental in getting Heliodore into St. Benedict’s College in
Years later, Msgr. Mejak
established a scholarship at
For nearly 10 years after his ordination
Msgr. Mejak had a variety of pastoral assignments.
In 1944, he was assigned to Holy Family, a
“national” parish serving the local Slovenian community in what was then the
Diocese of Leavenworth.
There, said Msgr. Michael Mullen, pastor of
St. Patrick Parish in
“Msgr. Mejak was
the parish carpenter and plumber,” Father Livojevich
told The Leaven. “He designed the school and parish hall -- actually did the
blueprints.”
For many years, in fact, Msgr. Mejak was practically a one-man show. He mowed the lawn,
shoveled the snow, maintained the buildings, and fixed whatever needed fixing.
He answered his own phone and door. He ordered all supplies. He typed the
parish bulletin.
“He was always proud to tell his fellow
priests and parishioners that Holy Family did not have a paid staff -- all
volunteers,” said Anzek. “We had no debt. We always
had money in the bank to take care of problems, and he was always proud of
that.”
Msgr. Mejak lived
alone and was largely self-reliant to the day he died. As his infirmities grew
over the years, he began to rely more on parishioners to be his legs and arms,
although he was always in control.
Deteriorating eyesight caused him to rely
on lighted magnifying goggles when he celebrated
Msgr. Mejak had
the week’s prayers and Gospel readings all photocopied and ready to go for the
week leading up to New Year’s Day. As far as he was concerned, he had plenty of
race left in him.
The Lord, however, had other plans, and Msgr. Mejak was called home on the vigil of his favorite feast
day.