Relaxing at the speed of light

 

By David Myers

Southwest Kansas Register

And suddenly it’s the holidays. I’m sitting at my folks’ house in Colorado. Three or four inches of snow have fallen, bleaching the neighborhood a bright white. I left Spearville for a Denver Thanksgiving a little early this year, warnings of a coming storm pulling me away from a mountain of work. Granted, it doesn’t take much.

 It was a nice, quiet Thanksgiving.  Mom, Dad, Sarah (my Lab), Missy (my parents’ toy poodle that can march under Sarah as if she were the St. Louis arch) and I enjoyed God’s blessings until our guts runnethed over. 

 I just de-boned the turkey and gave my dog several scraps, which, in the spirit of the season, she gobbled down. When she was finished she looked up at me and said, “It would have killed you to save me some stuffing, a few yams maybe?”

On Saturday, we’re having a larger family get together at my sister’s house. As I am responsible for providing dessert, I’m bringing PEZ.

As I write this it is Black Friday, so called because of the bruises people receive fighting over the best sale. I headed out at 8 a.m. this morning and the parking was already ridiculous. I came to the turn off at Target and wound around for nearly an hour waiting for a spot. Finally one opened up, and as I began to turn in, a little old lady in a Lincoln from half a mile away came barreling around the corner at what NORAD would later determine was just slightly over the speed of light.

 All I saw was a blur, and then the slowly forming image of a 5-foot woman with purple hair opening her large, Lincoln door. I sat there, stunned. She gave me one of those sweet, little old lady smiles, and ambled along. I never learned her name; I only knew that in some inexplicable way, the Target parking lot was better for having had her in it. Plus, she gave me a candy cane. (My affection comes cheap.)

I was hoping to find a nice digital camera on sale. See, I few years ago, I broke my work-issued digital camera. Since I broke it, I decided it only fair that I purchase a new one. A few weeks later, I did just that.

 You’d think that for $52 you could get a higher quality camera than the one I purchased. Well, after suffering through two years of less than high quality photos, I decided today to break down and buy another, better camera, only this time combined with a video camera so I can put cool video stuff on the diocesan website. 

I walked into Target and saw two old men fighting over an indoor golf putter. As I passed the dresses on the way to electronics, I noticed several women battling over a sales rack. Suddenly one uttered something into a walkie talkie. A youth in the shoe department began providing cover by propelling slippers in the direction of another woman, as the one with the walkie talkie yanked several strapless evening gowns from the rack. Someone shouted “incoming!” and a portly mother of three dove under a bunker of flannel evening gowns.

I was in electronics for only a few minutes when the mass of hurrying, anxious consumers busily sucking the Spirit out of the season caused me to become depressed and make for the door. On the way home I stopped at Walgreens for a quick coffee, and there spotted just what I was looking for: a digital camera/camcorder on sale.

 “My sister has one of these and swears by it,” the clerk said.

 “Will it give me good quality photos and video -- photos I can print in a newspaper?” I asked in my best editor baritone, one eyebrow raised in mock Spock.

 “Oh, yes,” said another, larger clerk (known in science terms as the “Alpha Clerk”), who came over after smelling a sale. “This is exactly what you’re looking for.” Terrific. I plopped down $49.99 and was on my way.

 So, here I sit Friday night. My parents are lounging nearby watching a movie in which Nicholas Cage learns what his life would have been like had he chosen true love over a high paying career. A commercial airs in which a slovenly looking guy 15 years younger than me presents his wife and himself with two very expensive cars for Christmas. I fight the desire to reach through the TV and bop him in the nose. People don’t need to be made to feel less than they are because they don’t have the latest and most expensive of products.

 After all, the Spirit of the season isn’t about purchases, it’s about sitting in a warm room on a cold winter evening, loved ones a whisper away, your dog twitching in her sleep as she dreams about chasing rabbits and eating turkey -- only this time with a little stuffing on the side.