St. Anthony, pray for us

By Steven Polley

Director, Office of Youth Ministry 

Recently I had the honor to serve as a confirmation sponsor for a young lady, Aubrey Hageman, from St. Anthony’s Parish in Fowler. 

   It was a special night as Aubrey graduated last Sunday, and has been involved in diocesan youth ministry since she began attending summer camp in middle school.  Over the years she has remained involved in all forms of parish and diocesan youth ministry. 

   She truly has been a witness and role model to many young people, and I have seen the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit come alive in her.  But this confirmation night had an extra touch as well.      

   Dave Geist from here in Dodge City and one of the adult advisors for our diocesan youth ministry, was serving as sponsor for Brian Dewell.  I know that both Dave and I were honored to be sponsors. What a compliment it was.  In a way, I think it was telling us that through all of our efforts in youth ministry, we are making a difference.  In some special way we have been present in the lives of two young people and have helped them grow in their faith.

   And still there was another dimension to this evening.  As I watched these 17  young people receive the sacrament, I counted at least 10 of them who have been involved in diocesan youth ministry in some way or another over the years. 

   My thought was, “Here is a small parish that has responded to my continued invitation to get our young people more involved in youth ministry and more deeply rooted in their faith.”

   It was a joy to see these 17 young people get confirmed.  Some of them have graduated and will be moving on to the next phase in their lives.  But whether they have graduated or will be seniors, one thing is certain, they will be taking a solid foundation of faith with them wherever they go. I know that each of them will see the presence of God in all things, and that God will continue to guide and bless them on their journey.

   I have been reading, “My Dear Young Friends,” a book with quotes from Pope John Paul II to the young people over the years.  One of his quotes states, “The human being has a deep-rooted tendency to think only of self.  One who chooses to follow Christ, on the other hand, avoids being wrapped up in himself and does not evaluate things according to self interest.” 

   As I looked at these young men and women from Fowler and the many other young people from around the diocese who have been involved in youth ministry over the years, many of whom graduated this year, I can tell you they have moved from a self-centeredness to an other-centeredness. 

   So if you will permit me, I would like to take a little time and focus on the underclassmen.

   At some point during my years of teaching I saw a billboard that said, “Congratulations graduates; Kindergarteners only 11 years, 180 days to go.”

   In the year 2007 one thing is a little different.  Our young people will be attending school 186 days.  So I took the liberty to think of our Kindergarten kids and the next 12 years, 186 days of school for each year, or 1,116 hours per year, which means that these young people have approximately 13,392 hours of school left before they graduate.

   In a previous column I wrote about how each week God gives us 168 hours and I proposed the question of how many of these hours do we give back to God in gratitude for the time God has given us. 

   We can all recall the maturation in faith this year’s seniors witnessed.  How can we now look at the underclassmen, juniors on down?  How can we look at these hours they have left before they graduate, and how can we use this time to help form them into stronger Catholic Christians, thus building up the Body of Christ?  How can we minister to them in a way that leads them to other-centeredness?

   I invite you to turn to the Patron Saint of your parish, as I turned to St. Anthony for this column, and through this prayer and intercession find a new quality in the time that we give to each of our young people.  Let’s use these 13,000 plus hours and form stronger disciples of Christ.  May God guide and bless you during these summer months, and thank you for continuing to respond to God’s call.