‘Win!’
By Steven Polley
Director, Office of Youth Ministry
Here we are in the heart of the spring
semester. For students, it’s
usually a tough time, because everyone is longing for that spring break that
awaits them. I know that my
youngest daughter is anxiously awaiting her spring break from this first year
in college.
For myself and anyone involved in ministry
we find that this is probably the most hectic and stressful time of the
year. In our “Word
Working” group the other night I shared that over the past few years I
have had a little trouble entering into any form of Lenten Penance. I shared that it seems like we are so
busy trying to get ready for different diocesan events that I fall into the
trap of working too hard and not taking the time to focus and center myself on
what is most important, and what’s important now. My guess is that others
would agree with me. Here we are
just finishing a TEC (Teens Encounter Christ) weekend, which took a lot of
preparation time, looking to the High School Youth Rally which is next weekend,
and of course I cannot count the number of hours of preparation that goes into
this. More about
the rally, with an invitation in a moment. Then we begin preparing for camps,
etc. And too, all one has to do is
take a look at their own parish.
Preparation for First Reconciliation, First Eucharist, Confirmation,
graduations and in some cases summer mission trips. For all of us this truly is a busy time
of the year. Probably
a good reminder for me that I should step away and focus more deeply on this
Lenten journey.
But
too, as busy as this time of the year is, it can be a joyful and sad. It is joyful because I continue to see
the joy in the eyes of many young people as they encounter Christ in new and
meaningful ways. There is a true
awe and wonder as they come to know Christ more deeply. But too, this can be a sad time as
well. For it is this time each year
that I begin to hear seniors make comments like, “this is my last high
school rally”, etc. For
seniors reality is starting to set in, as they begin to see the end, and for
many an end of being directly involved in many diocesan events. I continue to work with several seniors,
who began their ministry by attending summer camps as fifth graders. Over the years, they have been
instruments and messengers of God’s word to many others, young and
old. A prime example of this is
Aubrey Hageman a senior from St. Anthony’s Parish in Fowler. Her ministry in the diocese and her
parish has been a prime example of evangelization. She has always invited
others to share in the experiences she as. Just last week at the
TEC, Aubrey and several others, extended an invitation that brought five others
to this encounter with Christ.
What a powerful example of someone who has embraced her faith and the
Body of Christ.
And the beautiful thing about this, is the
fact that even though they are graduating, they will continue to be ministers
to others. I am excited about what
lies ahead for them as they move to the next phase in life. I can only imagine the impact they will
have on college campuses. God truly
is at work in this world.
Once again, it has been a joy to write this
column and to continue serving in my ministry in the diocese. Because on a daily
basis I get to witness the things that I have shared in these previous
paragraphs. Today, I
realized that this is my 100th column.
So, 100 times, I have been able to share the joy that I have as a
diocesan youth minister. And too,
100 times, I have had the opportunity to extend an invitation to you, to do
more with our young people.
Just after our high school rally a year
ago, I was a little frustrated because some parishes were not willing to send
adult chaperones to be with the youth at the rally. To me this was very sad, because we have
so many young people on fire for their faith, but adults who were unwilling to
spend one night on a gym floor with them, to celebrate their faith
together. Thus, I wrote a column
about making a deal. Well, my
invitation still stands. I invite
you to come to our high school rally on March 24 – 25 and spend 24
marvelous hours with our young people.
In return, I will be willing to do any job that you would like me to
do. I believe that your reward will
be much greater than you realize.
My guess is that you will leave the rally so energized that there will
be no job that I can do, that will
come close to helping you as much as the time with the youth will.
Finally, I close with another
invitation. I entitled this column
WIN. This stems from a theme we had
for our youth rally several years ago.
Again this theme was from the wisdom of a young person on the Diocesan
Youth Council. Another
young lady with a deep faith and a natural way of sharing it. WIN – What’s Important Now. I ask you
then, as our young people move through a spring semester and prepare for many
changes as they enter the summer months, what’s important now. Could it be a closer walk with these
young people on their journey?