Special to the Register
When Hermena Skalsky decided a year ago to move from her home in Belpre to
Manor of the Plains in Dodge City, she became a member of the Cathedral of
Our Lady of Guadalupe.
Now her son, Father Ted Skalsky, is also her pastor.
"When I turned 90 years old, I figured I had better not
live on the farm alone anymore," said Hermena.
Many family photos adorn the walls of her new home at
the Manor, and she considers it a "real blessing" that her granddaughter
and great grandchildren are able to visit so often.
With the aroma of baking pumpkin pies filling her
apartment, she said that she enjoys her noon meals with other residents in
the independent dining room, and enjoys preparing her evening meals in her
own kitchen.
Hermena also is able to join with other residents to
chat or play an occasional game of cards or dominos in the evenings.
"[Living here] keeps her mentally active because she's
around people more," said Father Skalsky. "Our family feels she is much
safer at the Manor because there is always someone around who can help her
if she needs it. It was a real blessing that she was at the Manor one
morning a few weeks ago when she was unable to get out of bed. She used
the emergency guardian system and the nursing staff was there to help her
right away.
"The security is wonderful assurance for Mother and our
family. There is a staff check should a resident unexpectedly miss lunch.
This makes me feel much better, yet she still has her privacy and can come
and go as she wishes."
Father Ted celebrates Mass for the residents at Manor
of the Plains twice a month. One particular resident looks forward to this
more than any of the others. Perhaps it is the anticipated conversation
with her "pastor" that will follow, or the opportunity to serve him
homemade pumpkin pie at her kitchen table.